Saturday, January 30, 2010

Can I holla at cha? Holla, holla, holla!

OK, part 2 people, as promised. It's a little late, but hey, it's here all the same.

The same Sunday that I had the baby shower that I was at, I got into an argument with a family member and chose to.... dun Dun DUN!!.... TURN OFF MY BLACKBERRY. *gasp* That goes to show how pissed off I was at the time. After about 6 hours I went to check my msn, that was in the appear offline status. Low and behold there is a message waiting for me, that was sent to me while I was offline!! "goodnight" followed by the emoticons for a moon and a hug. At about 2 AM, I start get a blackberry message, heretofore known as bbm.

Mr.HHH: You must be really upset so ill leave you alone

The next day on my day-off from work, the bbm starts again:

Mr.HHH: At least give me a sign of life to let me know that you're ok
Mr.HHH: It's not like you to behave like this

Really?!? It's not like me. And you know this after a week and a half, what I'm like and what I'm not like? You have no idea who I am buddy. I could have been out killing dudes and you would have had no idea that this is what I'm like. Some of you guys might think this is kinda cute, "Oh, he's worried about you, that's so sweet," and all that garbage. That's not sweet, he's acting like a bitch and we're not even dating. Never even kissed the guy. He acts like two completely different people from one minute to the next. One minute he wants to know who upset me so he can come downstairs and, "check their chin" or "do something to them." So, you're gonna come into my department at our place of business and beat the shit out of someone because they gave me attitude on the phone? The next minute you wanna act like a bitch. If we were getting mugged in a dark alley, do I have to spin a wheel to see which one I'm gonna get?

Anywoo, Tuesday comes around and I'm back work, so is he, but in a different building. the messages start raining down:

Mr.HHH: Why would you respond
Mr.HHH: Why are you giving me the silent treatment
Mr.HHH: What did I do?
Personal message change: from Mr.HHH to Mr.HHH(Why do I always get treated badly by life for no reason?!?)

All these messages are at about 30min intervals. If you really think that I was in a car accident or something, why do you think that YOU, of all people, would be the 1st, 2nd or 10th person on my list of important people to call. Why don't you just walk your ass down here and look? You'll see me sitting at my desk in perfect health and serenity!! Before all these messages started pouring, I had already decided that I wanted no more to do with this man-child. Everytime I thought I had calmed down enough to speak civilly with the fool, buzz, here comes another one. Eventually, I just had to let him know, "I don't think we should talk anymore." That was the nicest thing that I could muster.

Mr.HHH: I was worried about you
Jammy: You can't just bombard me with messages every time I want a moment to myself
Mr.HHH: Alright
Conversation ended.

He then deleted me from every social network/messaging system he had me on. BBM, msn, facebook, all deleted and blocked too. How do I know? Because I was going to do the same thing.

Believe it or not, there's more to follow, to be titled, "The Aftermath"

1 comment:

  1. whoa, r u serious... this is y i dont date/talk to ppl at work... although as time gets harder may just eat them words... can't wait for the aftermath (but i know u tried and busy)

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